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Regaining Trust
| Thu, 03-22-2007 - 9:42am |
to make a long story short-a little over a year ago my bf did some things that made me lose my trust in him, we separated for a little while then got back together. I am still having a hard time trusting him. I've even thought about putting monitoring software on our computer so I can see his emails, chats etc. but everytime I get ready to do it I think to myself if I distrust him that much maybe I should just break up with him. How do you regain the trust. By the way he did not cheat on me, but he would lie about who he was talking to online and things like that.
Thanks

Hi and welcome to the board,
It probably isn't the best idea to put the monitoring software on your computer. It is good that you realize how much you distrust your bf and that you want to work on it. Has he done anything to make you think he is still lying to you about who he talks to online?
You could try couples counseling. Do you think he would go with you?
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