relationship problem

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2008
relationship problem
2
Mon, 08-11-2008 - 11:36am

Hi,


I have been in a relationship for about 4years,we get along really good in every way.but he has got some problems with his business and I know that he is upset and worried because he wants to start a new business but from a week ago he started playing cold with me dosn't call or answer my calls I am confused don't know if something bad happened to him or maybe this is his way of breaking up without any reason,I don't know

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 08-11-2008 - 12:02pm

Welcome to the board poupee7,


Did he say anything before he stopped taking your calls? Did he ask for down time or time away or a break?

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Mon, 08-11-2008 - 6:58pm
After four years, you are more than a casual girlfriend, and it makes sense that you would be concerned when he just disappears. If you know his family, of course you can call them to find out if he's all right--"I haven't heard from Michael since ____, and I'm just wondering if he's okay."