the relationship saver

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Registered: 01-27-2004
the relationship saver
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 10:28am
recently my husband started going

into this gay and lesbian chatroom.

he likes to go in there and mess with people

and talk crap with them. he thinks its fun,

anyway he started talking to this person a so

called shemale and i started noticing how often

they are talking. i need some advice about this

am i overreacting about it and making a big deal out of

nothing? should i just relax and let him go on chatting?

its not like the person is going to jump out of the computer

or anything. i just dont like it and i feel really insecure

about my marriage now that this is going on. he hasnt been in

there for a couple of nights now because i made such a fuss about it.

he isnt gay or anything and we have been married for 22 years. i just

feel threatened by it somehow am i wrong to be so worried? thanks