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| Thu, 06-17-2004 - 3:02am |
Hello All,
I'm new to this message board and I was hoping that I can get some advice. I'm having problems w/ my husband because his cousins and brother are always in our home. Since he comes out of work at 4:30 til probably 12:30am give or take. They *drink* all evening and basically just hang out. If they aren't here in our home they go else where and do the same thing. They don't have jobs and live w/ their parents-they don't have any responsibilities-my husband does. We spoke about this situation this afternoon and his response was basically " I see your point, but what am I going to do at home?" I am insulted and upset, I told him something had to change or we needed to break up. He left around 7pm and said he'd be back at 9pm it's 10:20 he's still not home, he's on his way but I think that's just because I've called him and asked him to bring me something. We have these disagreements about this same situation every summer for the past 3 summers. What shoud I do? or am I being unreasonable? TIA

Do they have appropriate role models?
Is your husband looking for ideas on how to spend his time? Maybe you two can come up with a list together. Does he spend time with your other 2 children?