Renew wedding vows?
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|Sat, 06-22-2013 - 8:54pm|
I would like to know your opinion.....
I want to try to understand my DH and why I don't understand him on this topic.
My DH and I will have our 10 year wedding anniversary in July. I thought it would be nice to renew our wedding vows. He said he does not want to do that.
He has not given a major reason, other then, he said it is not necessary. I am usually able to put myself in another person's shoes and keep a open mind and try to understand, but this one, I am struggling with.
I told him that the day we married, 10 years ago, I was so nervous, I hardly remember the ceremony. I told him that we have been through alot together in the past 10 years and to me, saying those vows again, I want to do. He does not want too. I told him it is important to me.
So, what are your thoughts? If it is important to me, wouldn't he be willing to do this again? I am trying to understand his thinking, but maybe you all can offer some thoughts that would help me see his point of view.