Sad and Confussed

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Registered: 07-03-2006
Sad and Confussed
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Thu, 05-31-2007 - 4:36pm
I'm not sure how to start...its rain on my sunshine feeling ...if i'm having a good day he always does something to ruin it....I'm sad,lonely,hurt and tired... I been in a relationship with a man for 20 months now....I have tried everything to make him feel special and wanted (words,cards,presents etc.). I've told him repeatly that I care very much for him ... yet he doesnt return any of this.....(I tell myself that it is how he is, from how he acts, he doesnt show affection, cant show affection)... yet I feel like a fool sometimes and it hurts me so much and sometimes I even think he knows it hurts me but he still doesnt react to it ... how can I get him to see it hurts me.. that I need be showed affection also ... or someone please tell me ...HOW TO LET GO.....
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 05-31-2007 - 4:46pm

Welcome to the board leesa_3637,


Have you told him what you need? That you need affection and to know that he cares.


What is your gut telling you? Is it telling you that it is time to leave?


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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 06-04-2007 - 11:22pm

Hi leesa,


Will he read a book with you? If so, get Five Love Languages, by Gary Chapman.