Sad Angry Confused Please help!
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Sad Angry Confused Please help!
| Sat, 02-28-2004 - 8:19am |
Hi, I will try and make this short, have been seeing boyfreind for 7 months, we are both married, and have both been seperated from our ex's for 2 years. I have one young kid, he has 2 older kids, we see each other average 3 times a week,(he phones everyday) the problem is he has never told me he loves me and i feel that i am fitted into his plans, (kids, work ect all come before me). When we first met he was very attentive and would make a big effet to do what i wanted, ect, now it seems like I am just there when he can fit me in. He has started saying things like he has "issues" to sort out, I recently went to a family wedding with him, but his kids said they didn,t want to meet me and since then he has acted oddly, he is not so affectinate and i have not seen so much of him, if his kids want to stay at his and he has already made plans with me, he drops me and says we will have to go out another night. We had a row a few weeks ago and both said we should spend time on our own, then in the morning it all carried on as normal,The question is, am I being slightly selfish or should we both know what we want by now being 7 months into the relationship, we are both in our 30,s. Any advice would be appreciated as I just feel I want to give up, it is taking over my life and I feel unhappy.Should I know better, am I acting like a child. I dont think this is the way to feel if you are in a happy relationship and feel as though I am acting like a teenager.
Thanks in advance for any help or thoughts.
Thanks in advance for any help or thoughts.

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Separated or not, I know that I would never give thought to a serious relationship with a woman who is still legally married. People have been known to get back together, after all, and your failure to follow through with a divorce leaves open many questions.
Step 1) Get divorced.
Step 2) Get comfortable with yourself.
Step 3) Make a new life for yourself.
Step 4) Seek out a companion.
Note that Setp 4 is at the bottom of the list, not at the top.
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