Just because she flirts with him doesn't mean he flirts back.
I can 100% understand why this guy doesn't want you to introduce you to her. Since you have to pick a fight about her once a month, he doesn't trust that you don't want to start another one with her in person. I would definitely want to avoid that possibility too. I bet he's kicking himself for ever telling you about her.
And for the record no I wouldn't be jealous that another girl flirts with my guy.
He is the one who told me about the girl in the first place. i guess to boost his own ego. he alwasy likes to tell me how girls flirts with him or how the girl talks to him. I really dunno What he has done to stop the flirting. how would i know anyways? if he knows it bothers me hell try as much to keep the topic away as possible right?
Sounds to like this is more of a trust issue than a jealousy issue. Some offices just aren't the type where boyfriends/girlfriends stop all. It doesn't mean that he is trying to hide something or is embarrassed by you.
Does he still talk about the girl flirting with him?
Why shouldn't he be discussing it with her? Should it be a secret? IMHO this is one of those things that a good couple should be able to talk (and hopefully laugh) about without it causing problems. A desirable guy will be attracting other women whether or not he's attached.
....."once a month i will start up the same argument about that girl at his job. yes im jealous, who wouldnt be? you can say its a trust issue, but i say its not really ALL about trust. i been wanting to meet her forever and i finally confronted him.".....
....."He is the one who told me about the girl in the first place. i guess to boost his own ego. he alwasy likes to tell me how girls flirts with him or how the girl talks to him...if he knows it bothers me hell try as much to keep the topic away as possible right?".....
Don't take this the wrong way-- actually, take it any way you want, but you sound like someone I would NOT want to date if I were a man.
::He is the one who told me about the girl in the first place. i guess to boost his own ego. he alwasy likes to tell me how girls flirts with him or how the girl talks to him. I really dunno What he has done to stop the flirting. how would i know anyways? if he knows it bothers me hell try as much to keep the topic away as possible right?
Him telling you about what she does, is like rubbing your nose in it and saying no, you can't meet her, is immature in my opinion, though pretty normal for his age.
When it is one of those once in a blue moon things then it's really a matter of preference - something that a couple would discuss early on in the relationship and handle as a couple.
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>>i dont think there is anything wrong By meeting some of his colleagues right??<<
To be honest, meeting each other's partners really depends on the individual office's dynamics.
Just because she flirts with him doesn't mean he flirts back.
I can 100% understand why this guy doesn't want you to introduce you to her. Since you have to pick a fight about her once a month, he doesn't trust that you don't want to start another one with her in person. I would definitely want to avoid that possibility too. I bet he's kicking himself for ever telling you about her.
And for the record no I wouldn't be jealous that another girl flirts with my guy.
Welcome to the board swissmiss85,
Sounds to like this is more of a trust issue than a jealousy issue. Some offices just aren't the type where boyfriends/girlfriends stop all. It doesn't mean that he is trying to hide something or is embarrassed by you.
Does he still talk about the girl flirting with him?
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....."once a month i will start up the same argument about that girl at his job. yes im jealous, who wouldnt be? you can say its a trust issue, but i say its not really ALL about trust. i been wanting to meet her forever and i finally confronted him.".....
....."He is the one who told me about the girl in the first place. i guess to boost his own ego. he alwasy likes to tell me how girls flirts with him or how the girl talks to him...if he knows it bothers me hell try as much to keep the topic away as possible right?".....
Don't take this the wrong way-- actually, take it any way you want, but you sound like someone I would NOT want to date if I were a man.
Him telling you about what she does, is like rubbing your nose in it and saying no, you can't meet her, is immature in my opinion, though pretty normal for his age.
I'm glad you stated what you did Sandra as I fully agree from a man's perspective.
When it is one of those once in a blue moon things then it's really a matter of preference - something that a couple would discuss early on in the relationship and handle as a couple.
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