She asked for my boyfriend's number!!
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She asked for my boyfriend's number!!
| Mon, 02-02-2004 - 2:34pm |
My boyfriend and I have been together just shy of 3 months. We are moving at a nice steady pace and have been getting progressively closer. At a get together, I made a comment about one of my friends loving to talk all the time and how she calls several times a day and gets antsy when she doesn't get an immediate response. (I am pretty busy at work and don't have time). When I made this comment, my boyfriend (jokingly or at least it appeared so) suggested she call him during the day if she needed somone to talk to. (he only works 1-2 days a week and gets bored). I just laughed it off but she took him up on it and asked for his number right then and there. I am very bothered by this. I don't want her interfering in my relationship. I don't want him to develop a side friendship with her either. I am also concerned because I like her but I have not known her much longer than I have known my boyfriend. I would like to tell one or both of them how I feel about this but am unsure what is the best approach. I realize these are my insecurities but I really don't like this. What should I say/do?

You should address it with your boyfriend ASAP.
Carrie
I also think he's a bit of a heel for suggesting it at all, and I would be interested to find if he's not interested in your friend. You are in a very bad position, having befriended them both so close to each other. Your friend may not have loyalty to you. Your boyfriend may not either.
In any event, stick up for yourself. Don't sell yourself short. Demand loyalty or have one or both of them move on.
Good luck!
Did he give her his number when she asked for it?If he didnt give her his number, I really dont think you have anything to worry about, but i would take another look at your new friendship with this girl because i dont think its a good one.
If he did give her his number, this