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She likes to Vacation!
| Mon, 05-31-2004 - 5:39pm |
Hello, Well it's about Her wanting to to have a vacation with her friend no matter what the cost is! I love her to death and trust her completely. I met her 1 year ago. She is my highschool sweet heart and looks up to me. We our currently going though divorces and want to spend the rest of lives together. We spend all time loving each other and taking care or each other. But, she still wants to to party hard, like drinking and dancing without me. While we not together for alot of years, I myself would go to bars looking for women. I have this stuck in my mind that bars and dancing mean one night stands. Well I have a hard time couping with this issue and need advise. pleae feel free to reply!!

High school sweethearts have a tendency to leave "permanent impressions" in our heads. . But....ALL PEOPLE CHANGE!
You indicated that each of you is going through a divorce at the moment, right? Well there has to be TIME spent alone after a marriage comes to an end. Otherwise...each of you is on a "rebound romance"---and those rarely last longer than 6 months to a year at best.
Incidentally...why are you already trying to find another mate when the divorce papers haven't even been finalized? You're only setting yourself up for another failure!
As for your high school g/f---she needs to get the "party-animal" that's part of her personality UNDER CONTROL! And if she wants to spend her vacation time with a different man...that's not an issue for you to discuss!
Clean up one relationship (YOURS) instead of trying to control or dictate the terms for somebody else!
Pianoguy