Shold I wait???
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Shold I wait???
| Tue, 01-08-2008 - 4:42pm |
I've been with my b.f. for a year and three months. We fight like any normal couple, well a little more then that. I love him to death he's my best friend. well there days ago he told me he had fun not having a girlfriend and had fun without me. And he also said he hates our relationship because it stresses him out. But after 3 days he still tries to hug me, still tries to kiss me and still every time when he hangs up the phone he says he loves me? My friends all told me a lot of guys do this that they just get so stressed they need their space.But he told me one time he regrets being with only two girls physically before he was with me and wanted to be more experienced before he was married. Now i'm scared that he is going to do something with a girl while where not together. And im scared if he does should i take him back if he wants to be with me again. I'm no txting him im not calling him.I'm just so confused...PLEASE HELP!!!!

Welcome to the board kstar076,
There is nothing wrong with waiting for him for a little bit, but I wouldn't wait forever. He needs time right now to figure out what he wants.
Sorry you have to go through this.
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At 21 your boyfriend should be thinking about dating for a few years and not moving in with anyone. He is mature enough to realize that he isn't mature enough to settle down. I think men are more realistic about that.
He can love you and know that he can't