Should I accept this?

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Registered: 06-25-2008
Should I accept this?
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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 11:41pm

I hope someone on here can tell me if I'm wrong, if I should accept this treatment? Here's my story: I met a man on an online dating site and we've been talking for about 3 months. He's been calling me everyday and e-mailing me. We finally met last week. He took me out to dinner and we had a wonderful time. At his invitation, we went on our second date two days later. I came to his house and met both his teenage daughters, we went to the beach, me and him and

He's got the sweetest heart, sometimes I think he's just too good for me!...

Every day is C

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Registered: 12-16-2003
Sun, 06-29-2008 - 9:10pm
Priti, you're making a big mistake. The man has been separated for 6 years, has some compelling reason to stay married, sleeps around in front of his children, has ED, and NO most men do not sleep around having unprotected sex with multiple women in a week pre-arranged. This guy has serious issues. You will get your heart broken. He is obviously selfish and manipulative. There are many respectful men without all this baggage....
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Registered: 06-25-2008
Sun, 06-29-2008 - 11:10pm

He's got the sweetest heart, sometimes I think he's just too good for me!...

Every day is C

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 06-29-2008 - 11:39pm

No, the million dollar question is why are you still giving him the time of day?

I would be insulted that he's using God as a tool to get you back.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 12:16am

::She's sleeping in his bed. With Him.


One time too many.


He's smooth priti, he's telling you everything he thinks you want to hear and still doing exactly what he wants with Karen in the picture (bed sharing, introducing kids, plays, meals, etc).

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Registered: 12-16-2003
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 1:38am
Priti, BIG mistake!!! What are you thinking? Don't be so desperate as to accept this. The man told you he is sleeping with another woman, has another one on the way. He lied to you.....again. Don't let his wonderfully manipulative STORIES blind you. Your life will be hell every other minute with this selfish man who is playing you for a fool. A BIG fool. You have nothing invested here then a couple of weeks, CUT your LOSSES! Try to think logically beyond his verbal manipulation.
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Registered: 12-27-2004
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 11:10am

Everyone else is giving you excellent advice, and I hope you'll heed it.

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Registered: 06-25-2008
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 1:00pm

Hi, geoteo. We used a condom. He said he's taking the blood tests (STD) today and they should be back quickly.


He says he doesn't want to use a condom with me, it's like taking a shower in a rain coat.


I feel kind of victorious, I know I shouldn't though.

He's got the sweetest heart, sometimes I think he's just too good for me!...

Every day is C

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-25-2008
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 1:39pm
And I know all of you think he's a liar and this is some game, but I will say that I got 4 calls from him Friday night. One message left on my voice mail, and he sounded anxious and sad. Men who are having fun and sex with another woman, just don't act like that. That is why I tend to believe him when he told me he DID not have sex with this woman who he's sending home today. He could have lied to me, he didn't even have to tell me she was here, but he did...

He's got the sweetest heart, sometimes I think he's just too good for me!...

Every day is C

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 2:06pm

'Men who are having fun and sex with another woman, just don't act like that.'


Oh dear.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-25-2008
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 2:21pm

Ok, what did he do Gina? How am I supposed to take you guys advice if

He's got the sweetest heart, sometimes I think he's just too good for me!...

Every day is C

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