Should I accept this?

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Registered: 06-25-2008
Should I accept this?
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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 11:41pm

I hope someone on here can tell me if I'm wrong, if I should accept this treatment? Here's my story: I met a man on an online dating site and we've been talking for about 3 months. He's been calling me everyday and e-mailing me. We finally met last week. He took me out to dinner and we had a wonderful time. At his invitation, we went on our second date two days later. I came to his house and met both his teenage daughters, we went to the beach, me and him and

He's got the sweetest heart, sometimes I think he's just too good for me!...

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Registered: 06-25-2008
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 3:31pm

northwestwanderer: "Well, if nothing else, it's pretty clear the two of you are not on the same page with your sexual values so that's reason enough to move on.

He's got the sweetest heart, sometimes I think he's just too good for me!...

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 3:55pm
You're asking for explanations that no other person can give. Why did he tell the truth once? I can't answer that. Maybe it really was on his conscience and he felt badly. Why did he intend to have sex with two other girls? Can you give the answer to THAT one? So because he may have been honest with you once, that means he's a knight in shining armor? I just don't understand your standards. You claim that they're high, but yet you're with a man whose property you're threatening to destroy if he doesn't behave the way you want him to. If your standards were really that high wouldn't you find someone who wasn't so IFFY about his intentions toward you and other women, someone you didn't feel you had to keep an eye on in order to trust him? I just don't understand how this man could possibly mean so much to you that you're willing to overlook all of the disgusting things he's done or said in favor of an honest moment. I think he's really blindsided you and that concerns me. I don't get why you can't start over with someone who gives you a good impression from the start. This will turn out how it's supposed to turn out, and either way I guess we'll both learn something. Honestly I do hope it turns out for the best and that you prove everyone who has responded to any of your posts wrong... Obviously you know him better than we do, maybe there's something about him you know that we don't. All we can see is the craziness he's put you through. I don't know if he's a bad guy, good guy, or whatever... But when someone acts weird and inconsistent for reasons that I don't understand I have to personally suspect that they are a bad investment for a relationship.
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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 4:29pm
Priti, you have all the answers, so why ask the question? Everyone has given you objective responses - all similarly pointing out what you don't want to see. So, good luck with this married man who has no regard for his own children. That alone speaks volumes about his character. Your choice.
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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 5:13pm

I think "He

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 5:49pm

"He

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 6:40pm

....."So, AGAIN, what did the man do wrong, ladies????".....

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 7:08pm

THAT'S for sure Sher

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 7:12pm

Perfect role model for your boys - good choice.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 7:13pm
Maybe b/c he has figured you out enough that you will "get it out of his girls" ????

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 7:13pm
Breaking things in his house. NOW who's the role model?

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