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Should I Ask Him?
| Wed, 07-21-2004 - 3:55pm |
Hi. My boyfriend and I have been dating long distance for about 10 months now and I recently moved in with him for the summer (I will soon be leaving to attend grad school). Since I have been living with him, I have found MANY (as in more than 30) porn DVD's and when he recently asked me to pay his bills, noticed subscriptions to online porn sites. I have told him before that any boyfriend excessively engrossed in pornography was NOT for me - bc I feel like a boyfriend should want to be with me and only me. He told me he would stop, however it's getting much worse. Do I broach the subject again (I don't want to make him mad and I don't want him to feel like he has to hide it from me) or just try to understand that "boys will be boys"? Thank you for your time and advice.

Should you ask him? Yes. If you can't talk about it, that's not ideal.
MB