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Should I ask or wait?
| Thu, 03-18-2004 - 6:44am |
About 4 weeks ago my boyfriend and I had a long talk where he laid out the problems he'd been having with me and why he wasn't sure we should keep seeing each other. Apparently for the last 3-4 months he'd totally hidden from me his irritations, annoyance and even downright anger with some of the things I'd done or said. And how I reminded him of his ex-wife! We agreed to not see each other for a couple of weeks but after about 10 days gave into a 'booty call'. Well, for various reasons we haven't seen each other now for 2 weeks and probably won't again till next week. In the meantime, I'm getting more and more antsy about where we are. I really want to call or email him and ask if he still feels that way or if he's 'forgiven' me and moved past it all or if we're finished. His birthday is tomorrow and I'd planned to take him out to dinner next Wednesday so should I wait till then? I wonder if I should follow the rule of "IF you don't know what to do, best not to do anything"?

If it is bothering you so much, and I don't blame you, then why not take control and call him. Tell him you need to know so you can move on with your life.
'irritations, annoyance and even downright anger with some of the things I'd done or said'
Do you agree that you have done or said things that would upset him?