Should i be jealous?
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| Thu, 05-29-2008 - 9:22am |
Ive been dating my boyfriend for about 1 year and a half now. I am a single mom of two and was cheated on before. So im really paranoid now when i come across certain things. His best friend is now single and has been inviting him to some place named Johnny's Bar, at first i didnt have a problem with it until I seen a text message that said " I'm going to Johnny's want to go LOL" so I asked him about it and all he did was laugh and ignore me. So i did some researching and found out that the place is like hooters just that the girls dress more like strippers. They've been there about 3 or 4 times for lunch. And i seriously don't know if I'm exaggerating by being mad at him for it? Or if I am acting the way i should be about all this. Any advice? I've included the link to it so that you can see what it looks like.

I think you're over-reacting.
Welcome to the board confused1001,
I think you have gotten good advice. I just wanted to recommend some reading material to you:
If This Is Love Why Do I Feel So Insecure? by Carl G. Hindy
Learning to Love Yourself: Finding Your Self-Worth, by Sharon Wegscheider Cruse
How to Raise Your Self-Esteem, Nathaniel Branden
The Aladdin Factor, Jack Canfield & Mark Victor Hansen
The Magic of Thinking Big, David J. Schwartz
Welcome to the board confused1001,
I don't see any reason that you should be jealous about him going to this place for lunch. Yeah the girls may be dressed scantily, but what if he went to the swimming pool without you or what if some girl walking down the street wasn't wearing were much.
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I dont blame you for being annoyed by his choice in restaurants.