Should I be mad at him...
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| Sat, 10-20-2007 - 11:37am |
My bf called me last night to tell me he was hanging out with some of his friends late. I didn't mind but I wanted to be there with him. He worked all day long so I figure he would be too tired to drive to come and pick me up so I didn't say anything to him.
Later on he called me after midnight that they would be playing some flash light tag and I ask him who all were there. I found out that his ex-gf who is not over him and who also hates me was there. (Me and my bf has been together for 2yrs and He and her has been long broken up before we met.) I know he is not going to do anything stupid. He can't stand her at all. I reminded him that he has to work the whole day tomorrow so he should go to bed in a decent time.
He called me this morning and told me that he just went to bed about an hr ago. He is on his way to work. I am mad at him because he knows I wants to be there too and told me too tired to drive 20 mins to come and pick me up But not too tired to stay up all night and play?
He also knows that I don't like it when his ex and him hang out together when I am not there even if its in a social setting.
He said he was sorry. I mean I feel that I should not be mad at him, but I am mad at him.
Anyone has any thoughts on this as an 3rd party. :(

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What was he going to do, demand that she leave? Should he never hang out with his group of friends if she's invited?
No you don't have any reason to be mad, he was honest to you about it and he doesn't even like her.
Well, I am not mad at him for hanging out with her or anything. I don't seriously have a problems with them sharing friends.
I am mad at him for telling me that he is too tired to pick me and then hang out with them for all night long. ( only slept for an hour before going to work.)
The bulk of your post was about how he was hanging out with his ex-girlfriend who you both hate. I thought that was your main concern.
I don't know, maybe at the time he was too tired and then he changed his mind? Also, you assumed he didn't want to pick you up and you say in your post that you wanted to go with them. Why didn't you ask him?
Edited 10/20/2007 1:51 pm ET by eggbertshootsfire
I can imagine what u feel now. I would be the same if I were in that case. It's normal. Just tell him
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thanks for giving me a 3rd person point of view. :) I did ask him to come get me 2nd time he called me. He said he is too tired and was going to hang out for a little then going to bed.
I don't want to over react when I talk to him. Thank you again.
Edited 10/20/2007 7:57 pm ET by ukia
Well, honestly, he may have had the best intentions to do exactly as he said but things change.
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