Should I be mad at him...

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Registered: 06-04-2007
Should I be mad at him...
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Sat, 10-20-2007 - 11:37am

My bf called me last night to tell me he was hanging out with some of his friends late. I didn't mind but I wanted to be there with him. He worked all day long so I figure he would be too tired to drive to come and pick me up so I didn't say anything to him.

Later on he called me after midnight that they would be playing some flash light tag and I ask him who all were there. I found out that his ex-gf who is not over him and who also hates me was there. (Me and my bf has been together for 2yrs and He and her has been long broken up before we met.) I know he is not going to do anything stupid. He can't stand her at all. I reminded him that he has to work the whole day tomorrow so he should go to bed in a decent time.

He called me this morning and told me that he just went to bed about an hr ago. He is on his way to work. I am mad at him because he knows I wants to be there too and told me too tired to drive 20 mins to come and pick me up But not too tired to stay up all night and play?

He also knows that I don't like it when his ex and him hang out together when I am not there even if its in a social setting.

He said he was sorry. I mean I feel that I should not be mad at him, but I am mad at him.

Anyone has any thoughts on this as an 3rd party. :(

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2007
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 4:05am

anyway. I had talk to him about it and everything is okay. I am glad I get you guys opinions first before I go crazy on him or get into an arguement. Like I said, I feel what I feel, I am just very emotional person.

That is WHY I ask you all for your opinion. :) and I thank everyone for responding.




Edited 10/22/2007 4:06 am ET by ukia

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