Should I be mad or thrilled?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-10-2007
Should I be mad or thrilled?
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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 2:28pm
Hi, Dr. Shoshanna.
I recently discovered that my husband of 12 years took nude photos and video of me while I was getting out of the shower. I had no idea he was doing this; he was hiding behind a crack in the door. I truly believe that he would keep these things private, but I don't understand why he would feel the need to do this in secret. We have a good sex life. I feel a little betrayed. Should I? Or should I just be happy that after this long he still finds me attractive? Should I confront him?
Thanks!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 09-10-2007 - 4:31pm

Welcome to the board woodsygirl,


I think I would be upset about this. Even though you are married, I feel this is a violation of privacy. He should ask permission before doing this types of things. What if you home got broken into, and this got stolen.


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 3:11pm

Welcome to the board woodsygirl,


I'd be concerned and wouldn't be happy about it.