should i be upset???
Find a Conversation
should i be upset???
| Thu, 06-21-2007 - 4:45pm |
ok so here is the problem, my fiance has 2 children in which i absolutely adore and love! and i absolutely love when they are around. Well we usually have them every other weekend, but since summer started we get them every other week. Well this is our week off without the kids and tonight we finally have some time by ourselves with nothing to do--monday-wednesday we had baseball games for them to attend.Well the youngest child asked if he could come spend the night over and my fiance said yes. And i got upset. Should i be upset or not?

you should not be upset...the kids should be a priority. his answer should always be yes, unless you already have some pressing type plans that make it not possible.
your fiance has kids. the sooner you accept that reality, the better.
Hi nikkit7,
If you are upset, you are upset. Those are your feelings. It's not a matter of 'should' you be. You are.
So, in order for this to not happen again, you need to talk to him about your expectations for the week that the kids are gone - like at least one date night, that includes no kids for adult play time.