should i choose

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Registered: 04-27-2004
should i choose
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Tue, 04-27-2004 - 5:25pm
I have an ex-boyfriend who comes over daily and doesn't like the thought of us not being an item. But we are no longer together because of his cheating ways. I do sometimes send mixed signals but i rather just be friends with him. I am currently dealing with a loving long distance relationship who is not aware of my ex still being in the picture, while my ex on the other hand knows all about my long distance lover. I've been with my ex for roughly 5 years but we've been off and on during that time, but i've often found comfort in knowing i can go back to him. Should i get back with my ex?
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Thu, 04-29-2004 - 7:51am
Your long distance love doesnt know that the ex is still in the picture yet you left your ex for his cheating ways????? Sounds like you and the ex have ALOT in common and are well suited.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Thu, 04-29-2004 - 1:32pm
I second what bratgirl said.....

You are in a relationship, but seeing your ex every day. Your new guy doesn't know, but probably wouldn't like it.

Do you really think your ex has changed his ways? Or just wants to get back with you to prove he can?


Carrie