Should I contact?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2006
Should I contact?
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Tue, 10-23-2007 - 10:54am

I hope this makes sense.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 1:25pm

Welcome to the board bida27,


Hopefully someone will be able to say this better than I am going to.... but I'm going to try.


I think you are unable to stop thinking about him because you feel bad about how it ended and because you feel misunderstood and you don't want him to think badly of you. I also think you might be playing the 'what if' and 'if only' torture..... Part of this could be from being *stuck* in the past, in a loop if you will, being unable to break out of the cycle and pattern you've created for yourself.


He wrote you back, you are unable to accept that that is his view of you, because you don't want it to be. Meaning it's unacceptable to you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2006
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 2:23pm

You are totally right.