Should I go back to my ex i love him
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Should I go back to my ex i love him
| Fri, 03-26-2004 - 12:22pm |
Five years ago I met this guy "Bryan" and it was like love at first sight seriously. We were best friends for almost two years before we ever dated even though we both knew there could more between us. When dated for alomost a year after that and everything was perfect. I know most people don't belive in perfect realtionships but this was truly perfect, I can't think of anything that could have been better. We never fought always looked forward to being with each other and connected on all levels. However nine months into it, he just broke it off saying he didn't feel anything for me anymore. I was heart broken to say the least. Less than two months later I started dating my current boyfriend " Henry" and we've been together ever since a total of almost three years now. I stayed friends with my ex for a while after we broke up but it was just to hard on me and when we last spoke mabey two years ago he confessed that he had made a mistake breaking up with me and never had been able to find another person he connected with the way he did with me. I knew then that I still had feelings for him but didn't want to sacrifice my current realtionship for a second chance with my ex. So I stopped talking to him for almost two years to aviod the obvious feelings that were still there meanwhile dating my current boyfriend. I love my current b/f I guess, but it was a completely much stronger and intense feeling with my ex. For no reason, one day I called him again two weeks ago and he told me that he still feels the same way about me that he did before and he wants a second chance to do things right. I know that I still love my ex and that we have a certain chemistry that I've never had with my current b/f so what do I do. I know if I leave my b/f for my ex I will lose all my freinds because all my freinds were his friends first. Is it worth risking it all for a second chance at true love or should I just stay in my safe and secure so-so realtionship and be happy with what I've got? Help please write me with your thoughts on this please!!! My e-mail is happybunny6984@aol.com or leave your reply on this board. Thank You!!!

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Good luck to you on your decision.
Carrie