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Should I hope to remain friends?
| Thu, 06-03-2004 - 1:04pm |
How do you remain best friends with someone after it's over? We didn't have a bad breakup - just painful (in fact, it's basicly been 2 weeks and I still hurt). She calls me every few days, but we still haven't had a good heart to heart talk for closure. But we were best friends for 2 years, then dated for 2 years. It's important for both of us to be in each others lives.
No Contact is killing me right now. I miss her SO much! I don't call her, she calls me. But I know that it helps me heal and can also make her reflect and maybe want to continue with our relationship. But she is and was my best friend... what do you think I should do? HELP!!
for the Whole Story of what happened, check out my first posting.
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=15665.1&ctx=128

Ps. Although it hurts and all you want is to be with her again right now, the best thing may be to fill your time with other things instead of thoughts about her. You can call her and she can call you too but inbetween that time do something more benifical with your time like hang out with other friends or maybe volunteer or something. This will help you heal more than reminiscing about the past.
Destiny