should i really just get over it?
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should i really just get over it?
| Sat, 01-10-2004 - 2:28pm |
my ex-high school boyfriend and i were going out for at least three years...we've known each other for six year as of now...now the first two years were great then the third started getting too rocky...all he wanted to do was to be with his friends and that year we were graduating...i started to hear he had other relationships and i was devasted...i thought we were it, we planned a lot and he was i swear everything that i wanted...when we broke up it was summer 02...and from there i was in depression..i had no real friends nor no one to really talk to and i lost major weight...then i went to college and all he did was chase me around..it's been weird cause i got into a new relationship and i feel like confused because as much as i would want to be with my ex i force myself not to just because i don't want to get hurt...but on the real i'm still in love with him...or am i? he stopped callin me, goes to parties, talks to my enemies..is he over me? what should i do just move on and forget what i feel because it might be a fluke? i dunno i just hope someone out there has suggestions or advice cause i'm all out...

What you need to do is get involved. Join something at college. Is there an art club? An outdoor club? A book discussion group? An exercise class? I know some of these things seem dorky, but really, it's the key to finding yourself. Once you figure out what it is you like to do, you can meet some people with whom you have common interests and make some friends. Then, once you have made some friends, don't ever set them aside for a guy. They are more important because they are the ones who will be there for you if it doesn't work out, and they will be the ones to help you plan your wedding someday if it does work out.
I say yes, move on from the ex. He is.