should i save my marriage

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-11-2007
should i save my marriage
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Mon, 06-11-2007 - 4:59pm

i need help. my marriage is in a downward spiral. my husband doesnt want children i do. i am the sole financial support person in my marriage. i have a job offer in another city that i have previously held but left for my husband to go to school im currently working in a job that i am content in. to save my marriage i have to agree to move and to be ok with not having children.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 5:53pm

Welcome to the board,


Would you be okay with not having children? You said you wanted them. You have to decide what matters more in your life. Your marriage to your husband or you desire to be mother.


I am sorry you are going through this and that you have to choose.

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Registered: 06-11-2007
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 6:08pm
no i really want children
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 10:37am
If he is unwilling to have children with you, than I think you know what you need to do.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 12:14pm

Welcome to the board reesee,


::to save my marriage i have to agree to move and to be ok with not having children.


but you really aren't ok with it?