Should I stay?
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|Tue, 08-06-2013 - 8:45pm|
I recently got out of a 5 year relationship and started dating a guy at work. It has been a really nice month and I really liked him and we have been having these really long phone calls since ive been out of town (an hour or 2 every night) but last night on the phone he opened up to me saying that he didn't think I would like him once I got to know him. I told him that I really liked him and asked why and he went on to tell me how he goes out to bars with the intention of getting drunk every weekend, never been in a relationship longer than a few months, the last woman he was with was a single mother who he only used for sex, he hates cats (I have 2), he has no hobbies other than work and drinking and is boring and he thinks I will just end it anyways soon when I find out how boring he is. Plus he said the last girl he was with he would never marry because she was too old, and she was 34, and him and I are both 30! So what does that mean he thinks of me?
I said good night, and the next morning he texted me something sweet, but now all day I've been thinking about it and I'm not sure if I ever want to even speak to him again, much less have a relationship. I am out of town right now so I won't have to see him for a few days but it just makes me wonder, did he tell me this to scare me off? Or did he think that telling me all this would make us closer? Maybe he was drunk? Why would he say these things? I just feel like my entire opinion of him has changed and I will not be able to continue with him. So then I guess I should just break if off right? Is there any reason should try? Before the call I was really into him but now it's just like someone turned the switch off.