Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
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Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
| Thu, 07-24-2008 - 6:27pm |
I met this guy and he is a really really great man. We have so much in common and I feel a real connection with this guy. He said that he has never felt this way about anyone and I have never felt this way about anyone too. BUT he said to me that he is bi-sexual. That made me worrie a bit that this might get in the way. I have no problem with it as long as he does not crave the other side I guess. Its like not only do I have to worrie about females I have to worrie about males too! So if your a bi-sexual guy do you ever see yourself being happy with a woman for the rest of your life. And girls who have dated a bi guy did you relationship work?

I believe that there are a couple of things that you should do to help yourself and one is to ask him questions about his past relationships...what's the longest he's been with someone, what is he looking for in a relationship, etc.
Whether or not you like the answers to those questions, I would still work on developing trust, trust of yourself and others. If you have had a string of cheaters in your past, stop and examine why this is happening to you. What was the draw to these guys? What are the red flags that you are (subconsiously) ignoring?
Good luck.
Welcome to the board veganchick (me too),
Until you resolve your trust issues, I fear anyone you become involved with that the relationship won't be what you want or need it to be.
For me, I wouldn't date someone that was bi.