Should I stay or should I go???
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Should I stay or should I go???
| Thu, 12-13-2007 - 7:46pm |
DSO and I have been together SIX YEARS.
DSO married #1 in his 20's.
| Thu, 12-13-2007 - 7:46pm |
DSO and I have been together SIX YEARS.
DSO married #1 in his 20's.
Okay, you're in your early 40s so I assume you don't plan on having children together. You are committed to each other as evidenced by buying the real estate. Do you really need the wedding ceremony to be happy? Do you think it will change anything between you, alter or better your relationship in any real way? If so, how?
Would you be happier without him at all than with him without marriage? Make a choice. Decide to leave him or stay with him. If he is dragging his feet on the marriage thing, and that is what matters to you most, then leave him and find someone willing to marry you. Or, if it is him in particular that you want,
Welcome to the board 67diva,
Is getting married or not important enough to you to ruin an other wise good relationship? Do you think you could be happy if you never got married and things just stayed the same? Do you live together?
Some people can be perfectly happy together and never get married.
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Welcome to the board 67diva,
I had the same question basically....with or without marriage are you happy where you are, with him and the relationship?
Thanks for the responses.
I myself wouldn't have agreed to purchase property with someone I wasn't married to, for obvious reasons. You simply do not have the same entitlements with someone you're merely 'shacking up' with, nor will you receive the same mutual benefits. Basically, you don't have a lot to stand on in your current
Thanks, I appreciate the honesty.