should i talk to him about this??

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Registered: 03-17-2004
should i talk to him about this??
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Tue, 05-11-2004 - 9:38pm
Ok, my guy friend is dating this girl. She keeps playing these jokes on him, yet, if he does that to her, she freaks out and gets mad at him for it and doesn't talk to him for days. I never met her but I don't like how she is treating him. I think he can do much better than her. But, I don't want to get him mad at me. She obviously makes him happy, how I have no idea. I am even wondering if she would ever cheat on him, she seems like the type that would judging by how she is treating him sometimes. I don't even think this will last long. My ex-boyfriend is his best friend and said that he just kinda keeps out of this whole thing, that he doesn't understand her, and that she needs to quit the fact that she can dish it out, but can't take it. I don't understand why my guy friend loves this girl, she doesn't treat him well at all. Should I tell him how I feel about her or stay out of it??


blondebeauty03

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Registered: 05-06-2004
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 1:57pm
Ok for 1. you sound like your about 14 years old and obsessing over this way to much, 2. yes he maybe your friend but if he wants to take it let him, I'm sure he is smart enough to handle his own problems, 3. about the cheating you have no proof, only what you think so if you bring that up with no proof your may lose your guy friend.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 2:00pm
Stay out of it.


Carrie

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Registered: 07-31-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 2:55pm
I'd stay out of it unless he directly asks you what you think. It isn't your place to just offer up your opinion. You see, he needs to learn lessons too. Let him learn on his own, until he seeks guidance from the people around him.

 

-amy-    "CL-fiesty"

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 2:57pm
Sorry to be blunt but you have never even met this girl and you've made all these judgements about her and have all these negative motives against her. Grow up and MYOB.