Should I worry?

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Registered: 08-23-2007
Should I worry?
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Thu, 08-23-2007 - 10:39am

My boyfriend recently asked me if I would ever allow him to have sex with a man "just to see what it's like"... He claims not to be attracted to men, and that it's simply the sex that turns him on. I told him I wouldn't ever give him permission to do that, and he was understanding. However he DID ask me to use a strap-on for him a few days ago. That didn't really bother me, and I thought it could also be fun for me, so I did, and it was enjoyable for me (though not as much as sex). He, on the other hand, thinks he may enjoy it more than sex, and is in the process of shopping for a bigger strap-on. I also don't think he's completely let go of the idea of sleeping with a man.

I understand that this is something he enjoys, and I'm willing to do it. However I AM worried about him liking this more than sex, and also his desire to sleep with a man. I also worry that he might try to slowly work out having sex with me. He says he isn't gay, but I can't help but wonder if he is. I'm glad he's open enough to talk about this with me, and I guess it's better that he is... but I'm still concerned. Could this mean he's gay? And if not, how will this affect our sex life? I'm really confused, and any advice would really be appreciated.

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Registered: 08-23-2007
Wed, 08-29-2007 - 5:41pm
haha Thanks :)

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