Should u know eachothers passwords?

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Registered: 02-07-2008
Should u know eachothers passwords?
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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 12:39pm

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 9:48pm

Obviously he changed his password because he wants privacy. It's understandable to want privacy, but he did this in conjunction with lying to you and saying he hadn't contacted anyone. The combination of the two together isn't so good. If he is living with you and in a relationship with you, he should let you know that he is going to have drinks with a female. Otherwise, you have every right to feel uneasy. It's a tricky matter to talk about the fact that you snooped on his facebook. On the other hand, it's also tricky to be in a relationship where you can't really trust the person you're with. So, I think an open, honest conversation about what's going on is in order. Long distance relationships are difficult, but they can't make it without honesty and trust.


All good wishes,

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