Shutting down

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-08-2007
Shutting down
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Thu, 11-08-2007 - 11:54am

Here's my deal.


I've tried to explain to my boyfriend that when he says something so mean/hurtful to

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: ar_2007
Thu, 11-08-2007 - 12:49pm

Welcome to the board ar_2007,


Your boyfriend is very crude.


::He's even heard it from one man that when it comes to foreplay, a man is more into physical foreplay. A woman's foreplay can start hours before the actual deed, especially by saying/doing things that are nice, sweet, loving, or "I'll make dinner tonight".


He's right - that means talking NICE, being nice and behaving in an appropriate manner.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: ar_2007
Fri, 11-09-2007 - 10:17pm

Hi again,


I wanted to bump this up for more replies and I wanted to add:

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: ar_2007
Sat, 11-10-2007 - 1:37am

Hi Ar_2007


I'm wondering about him saying that his behaviour is "tit for tat".

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2006
In reply to: ar_2007
Sat, 11-10-2007 - 6:41am

Hi Ar-2007,


This crude behavior is obviously


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: ar_2007
Sat, 11-10-2007 - 8:53am
"He claims he's a caveman...And if thats so, that's sure in hell something I don't want."
So leave?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: ar_2007
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 10:39am

::"well, we should be f--king instead of arguing. I told you the things I would not live without. When was the last time u put my d--- in ur mouth?"


If he said something

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-08-2007
In reply to: ar_2007
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 11:15am

Thanks to all who replied.


Friday nite was going pretty good. No bad talk, nothing.,After going out for dinner, we went back to his house. I sat him down in the living room and told him

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: ar_2007
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 12:04pm
I think you did the right thing by ending the relationship. I know it is hard, but it really is for the best.

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