sick puppy

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Registered: 05-27-2004
sick puppy
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Thu, 05-27-2004 - 1:31am
gender: Male age: 51 location: Morgan Hill, Ca. topic: does she love me?

I'm disabled on fixed income. debbie and steve ,her boyfriend, moved into my house 1 years ago to help me repair damages incurred by previous renters. In return they would live there for free. It had no kichen, and only one bath worked, but needed repair, there was dry rot, and termite damage. Steve and I became good friends, but I found out later that he was a recovering alchoholic. The nicest guy you would want to meet, but one beer and he was a mad man. She would wash dishes in the bathtub. She and steve begin arguing. He would call her a hore and she would deny it. One night the fighting was so bad that he busted the windows in her car and was threatening her, so I called the police and he was arrested. Then she begged me to help her bail him out. The bail was a $25,000 bond so I bailed him out. He left for stockton and she was begging me to let him help me again because he was living on the street, etc. I could not afford to pay someone to fix it so he returned. The ! next big fight they had was because they claimed that I stopped his mail from comming to the house, but all I did was do a change of adderss on myself and somehow the post office stopped his mail. He proceeded to damage every door and wall in the house because he said he was supposed to receive important medical papers thru the mail, but the mail was returned. The house stayed that way for a month. Broken glass everywhere all her possesions destroyed. I went and had the front door fixed so it would lock. One time while I was away one weekend. An old friend christine went over and by then debbie and I were more than friends because I started giving her money and helping her with her things. Steve And christine tried to throw debbie out. He damaged another car in the garage. Someone called the ploice, but this time the cops took debbie because she had just gotten a warrant for possesion of an ounce of marijuana, but she told the cop it was for medical reasons. Steve was gone and she called me from jail asking me to bail her out, so I did. Instead of going to her house, we went to my Mom's where I have been living since I could not stand their Arguing. She started show her affections for me how grateful she was that I bailed her out and me and debbie made love to eachother. She told me never to tell steve. Steve returned and started repairing the damages to my house. He repaired some of the damage but the walls will never be the same. I transfered the property to my son's name and he got a loan to fix it right. He also is evicting all who are residing there. She is very upset with me and said everything between us is up in the air. Steve left today for sacramento to a recovering alchoholic program. She will not let me help her move. She no longer calls me. I'm lost with out her. The last day of the eviction she gets pick up by the police because they think she is high, but she was on a perscribed medication and so she has to go in court and try to defend herself and now she has a record She has a probation officer and she has substance abuse classes!

I am now 53 and much has past since I last worte you! I helped Steve and Deb take all of her personal belongings to a storage unit in Morgan Hill and I am still paying it when she can't pay. They moved into my Truck and into the cab over camper and I parked it at the wal mart in san jose, the wal mart in gilroy, Albertson's, and where ever they wanted it! He would fight with her day and night, but she could not sleep without him! I finally allowed them to move into a trailer that was parked behind mom's house! It was Debbies and I moved it there because they had nowhere else to put it! It did not last before they started arguing and the neighbors would wake up and get mad! the neighbor was my niece and her husband and we never got along to begin with! My niece did a lein sale on the license plate of debbies trailer and my niece tried to put a pad lock on the door to the trailer next to debbies pad lock and me and her husband got into it real bad! I finally had to do a power of attorney which means power vested in me to represent my mom on all legal matters and we evicted my niece and her husband off the property! It was too late because by then Steve took deb in my car to his sisters house in reno where he kicked her knee and busted it! She called me from Reno and wanted me to go out there! I couldn't so he brought her to kaiser hospital where she has insurance through her husband Rick! Steve left her in emergency and took my car back to Reno! I can't remember all the details, but Deb got better and was wearing a brace. She hooked up with this Karate expert named Jonh that she knew in school and he, I, and debbie approached Steve ( he was here because he needed money ) and I told Steve to give me my key to my car! When he saw the buffed guy I was with he gave me the key and started an arguement with Deb and they started yelling at eachother until he finally started walking down the highway! Well deb fell in love with John and they live in the trailer behind my house in bliss for about 2 months! Then John had a court date and he goes to court, but never comes back! He had a record a mile long and so he is in jail waiting to get on prop 36. After 3 weeks of deb crying and sometimes I could hear her in her trailer! I bail john out and it took a $25,000 bond against my property and His parents who are rich, paid for his Sober Living Program and deb starts calling him and talking with him again! Then 1 week before he finnishes his program he gets caught with a dirty urin sample and so he gets kicked out of the program and came back to live with deb. John turns on Deb because he suspected her of setting him up down her friends house in san jose! Deb finds out he has a child from Nortencia and Nortencia suspects deb of cheating on her man! and so Nortencia wants John to live with her again! she wants him back. John tells deb he's comming home, but that night he goes to Nortencia. Deb was standing looking out the window all night that night and her heart was crushed! Then (to be cont'd)

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Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: erny4you
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 11:54am
great soap opera. IF this is really your life, you need to set some boundaries and get these people out of your life.


Carrie