snooped around and now i am confused
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snooped around and now i am confused
| Wed, 09-08-2004 - 8:33am |
hello everyone i will make this short as i can me and my fiancee have been together for four and ahalf years been engaged two of those years well about the end of august i went into his email account and found two emails from a friend that he went to highschool with the email that the girl sent him was honestly harmless but on his end he was curious if she was seeing someone he did not mention me or our daughter in the email but the girl does know about us well i went on to go ahead and tell him the truth that i did check his email account and of course he was mad also he states that he did not reponsed to that email because of the fact that we do not have a computer or does he have one at work and also at the time the email was sent i can say that he was at home at the time the email states that it was sent also he just bought a new house i live there as well with our daughter but i am not on the loan because of some credit issues but he asks when i am going to marry him but i am just so confused right now i love this man he is my soul mate but we really never say i love you please help me

- You are the only person with regular access to a computer, probably at your work.
- You live with your fiance and do not have a computer at home.
- He does not have access to a computer at his place of work.
- He states that he was at home at the time the email was sent.
Are these true and accurate facts? If yes, then there are a few possibilities:
- He had a friend respond to the email.
- The timing is off and he was at a friend's house or at an internet cafe and responded to the email.
- Maybe you sent the email to create drama.
Regardless of how the emails were sent & received the content does seem to be innocent. He asked a fairly normal everyday question that could be asked to any friend.
So what's the real deal and issue here? If you can be straight with us, then we can be straight with you.