so confused

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Registered: 10-02-2004
so confused
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Sat, 10-16-2004 - 2:35pm
I have been seeing a wonderful man for 8 months now. He is very good to me. He has not told me he loves me, but he has shown it. We have talked about moving in together. I don't want to. The problem being, there is very little passion in our relationship. I don't know if I can be happy with that. I have been thinking about my ex boyfriend alot lately. We have been in contact, but I have been feeling so guilty about wanting to be with him. I feel so confused. Sometimes I feel like I do not know how to love someone. If anyone has an oppinion, please I am open to any suggestions. Thanks.

very confused
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Registered: 05-20-2003
In reply to: eternity680
Sat, 10-16-2004 - 7:34pm
You are not ready to move in with someone if you are thinking about your ex a lot and missing him. Why did you break up and how will things be better if you got back together? What has changed?


Maybe neither of these guys is right for you.