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| Thu, 06-17-2004 - 12:26am |
My boyfriend, Chris and I have been dating off and on for 3 years. Our relationship has at some points been great...and at others, been almost more stress than it seemed it was worth. In April...we weren't officially dating...while we still saw each other and still had feelings for one another, we weren't exclusively seeing one another. I went out of town for a weekend to see a guy friendwhom I had once been involved with graduate from Navy Recruit Training. I flew to Chicago with this friends family and came back 3 days later. I never mentioned this to Chris. For the past month Chris and I have managed to work through alot of baggage and past issues and finally find stable ground in our relationship. But this whole secret of Chicago has me bothered. I feel guilty for leaving out this information...but I also fear that he may find out from someone else later on. I wonder if me telling him would be more relieving me of my guilt than it would be to better our relationship. I wish now that I never would have gone but at the time I didn't really think we would ever work things out so I didn't think it would even be an issue. I just really need some advice on what would be better for out relationship. Please help.

Carrie