So confused!!!

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Registered: 03-23-2004
So confused!!!
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Sat, 02-23-2008 - 4:24pm
I have been dating this guy for a little more than a year. We were friends before and pretty much fell in love. Things are pretty good, but there is one major issue- He never wants to do anything! I mean I invite him to come up to my parents house a lot, and he says no. I want to do more stuff with him and he never wants to! It hurts me and frusterates me to no end! He is a great guy, but he hardly ever wants to compromise. What is going on with him?? I feel like he loves me, but if he loved me wouldn't he want to do more things with me?? I don't get it! Please someone help me!!!
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sat, 02-23-2008 - 7:42pm

Catiebug, can you explain a little more please?


When you say that he never wants to do things with you, do you mean that the two of you are hanging around the house together and he doesn't want to go out?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 8:57pm

Welcome to the board catiebug2004,


So what do the two of you do when you see each other?

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 1:27pm

Welcome to the board catiebug2004,


How often do you see each other?


Have you told him that you would like to spend more time together?