So Confused!!!!

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Registered: 01-28-2008
So Confused!!!!
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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 7:18pm
Ok so I have had this guy friend for quite some time he actually introduced me to my boyfriend.
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Registered: 08-21-2005
Mon, 01-28-2008 - 7:54pm

The old saying 'have your cake and eat it too' comes to mind. He is living the dream. He has a girlfriend and is hoping to see you on the side. Perhaps, he's sincere and doesn't know how to break up with his girlfriend but something tells me that if he *really* wanted to be with you he would do anything to make that happen.

Being friends with your Ex-BF and having many mutual friends in common makes me believe that he has no intentions of breaking those connections either to be with you.

If I were you I would cut him off 100%. Have no contact. Let him know when he's ready for a relationship to let you know and if you're still available then see what happens.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 01-28-2008 - 11:31pm

Welcome to the board gal_frustrated01,


::He lies to me and tells me that he didn't want to date her but doesn't know how to let her down.