So frustrated- could use advice
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So frustrated- could use advice
| Tue, 06-24-2008 - 5:00pm |
My live in boyfriend and I have been together for a few years and are currently planning a move to a new place I bought (we lived in his house for the last year and I paid him rent).

Welcome to the board frustrated_lynn,
::but I feel like he is acting like a child with the yelling, calling names and hanging up the phone on me.
Welcome to the board frustrated_lynn,
Well my advice and I'm sure you not going to like it, would be not to move into this new place together. He is very mean and verbally/emotionally abusive to you.
Are you buying this house in your name only?
I don't think moving to this new house is going to solve any of your problems or make you get along any better.
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Thank you for your thoughts and suggestions.
I am buying this place in my name only.
The way a man treats the women in his life is a huge sign. Why do you stay with him when he puts you down? I'm sorry but you're deluding yourself if you think having a larger place to stay will magically cause this man to respect you. He is cruel and demeaning, and while I'm sure he has great qualities, deep down he has the ability to be downright abusive. That's not a man who is suitable for a relationship with anyone.
Men like this do not get better. Eventually they get worse. He needs to be on his own, without a woman to belittle, in anger management.
"I just don't want to be the target of that meanness for the rest of my life."
Then I suggest you not spend another day being the target of his meanness.
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