So I have been talking with this girl...
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So I have been talking with this girl...
| Tue, 10-21-2008 - 12:27am |
Ok so I've been "talking" to this girl for about a month and a half now and she really likes me a lot and is ready to make it "official". I've told her how much I like her and all that and I was ready to ask her out or make it official or whatever they call it now but like all of a sudden ive got cold feet. I really don't feel like I'm committed and feel

What it sounds like is going on with this particular girl is that you don't really
It sounds as though you have a pattern here and a problem with getting closer, or committment. Something scares you, perhaps you feel trapped or as though you're being pushed into something before you are ready for it. As this happens repeatedly, it is a pattern and the way to fully and truly understand it is to get a counsellor and work on it. These patterns run automatically and unconsciously and so usually it's very difficult to undo them yourself.
Get some more insight into what is causing it and you will be able to make new choices in your life.
Best wishes,
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Welcome to the board ballin77,
You've only been talking for a month and want to make it official?
Oh, I thought "official" meant something more official than just the dating.
Well at the beginning it was all exciting and everything but as time has gone by its less and less. I get annoyed at