So lost...

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Registered: 07-05-2007
So lost...
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Thu, 07-05-2007 - 2:21am
so my ex gf & i just broke up and we had dated for almost 2 years. she was the first person i was ever in love with but until her all my life i never felt an attraction to guys or girls sexually or physically. of course i did enjoy the whole chase game of it, but thats all. anyways, i broke up with my gf today because im just not sure if im in love with her anymore. i dont get those feelings of wanting to go out of my way to hang out with her, or get excited to talk to her like i used to. but without her i feel so lonely and i want her to come back over. how do i know if i fell out of love or if we are just getting to the point in the relationship where it isnt about those warm fuzzy feelings its just about loving each other and being their in support?
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Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: jennyxoxo123
Thu, 07-05-2007 - 11:08am

'but without her i feel so lonely and i want her to come back over.'

Maybe you are just lonely in general and that isn't a reason to see her again. If you really don't love her then don't string her along. What else is going on in your life-school, friends, work, etc?

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Registered: 07-05-2007
In reply to: jennyxoxo123
Thu, 07-05-2007 - 2:01pm
same as usual. Not very stressed or anything. I was writing my thoughts out last night and I think I may just interpret this new love feeling for being no love at all. In other words, there comes a point in a relationship where those butterflies dont happened every time you talk because that high school girl kind of love is replaced with a deeper profound love that becomes based on understanding/support & commitment. I'm still not 100% sure, but I feel that may actually be the case with me.