So Very Upset..... Don't know what to do
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So Very Upset..... Don't know what to do
| Mon, 01-05-2004 - 6:00pm |
I'm very upset. I feel like my husband doesn't find me attractive anymore. Well lately he has been joking around and saying that I am cheating on him. It was all joke. I guess you would have to know how he said it to take it as a joke. He only said it to me, no one else.
As usual I got to thinking about it as I always do. They often say the accuser is the one doing what he or she is accusing. So I didn't really believe he was cheating on me but today I found porno movies on our computer. He downloaded them at night while me and his son were sleeping. I know it was him because only him and I have access to the computer. Our son is only 6 months old so it wasn't him. I'm really hurt and wondering if maybe he has been chatting to girls on the net too. He has cheated on before back when we were dating but I forgave him and he slowly earned back my trust. I wonder if trusting him was the wrong thing to do.
Is it my fault? Did I do something wrong? Do I have every right to feel hurt or is this a normal guy thing?

Looking at porn sites doesnt automatically make him quilty of infidelity, but if this is a genuine concern of yours, youneed to confont him on it. With out accusing, let him know that you are aware of him visitig these sites while you are sleeping, making sure you let him know how it makes you feel.If you are still feeling anxious about things you can always lok into installing spyware on your computer, although depending on the circumstances you are divulging into these methods, I dont always agree on doing this. One betrayal doesnt ok another, ya know? Basically, If you feel this way, do something about it...you and your child deserve it.Good luck.