Something does not feel right
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Something does not feel right
| Tue, 04-24-2007 - 10:33am |
My boyfriend of nine years has been acting out of character lately. Over the course of the past few weeks he has been leaving every evening for one reason or another with his brother who less then two years ago had affair on his wife. I am concern because they are not coming home until very late at night and then they say that were just out getting a cup of coffee or they ran into someone and they were held up. He is also lying about where he is going…he’ll say is going one place and then end-up in another. He tells me he loves me all the time and that I am beautiful and although these comments are not unusual for him they are coming more frequently. He does not bring his cell phone in the house anymore and keeps it with him at all times. I have confronted him about these things and told him if he has made a mistake that he can tell me but he replies with why have you done something? I am not sure that he is guilty of anything but something does not feel right.

Welcome to the board dcmalie,
Did you put your post in the top category as well?
No I didn't ....I am new to this message board but I will do that for next time...thanks.
I am trying hard to trust him...it's never been a problem in the past but lately he has been making hard for me to do that. Short of spying on him I am not sure what else I can do.
Do any of these apply:
7 Legitimate Motives for Spying