Soon to be married..maybe! HELP!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2008
Soon to be married..maybe! HELP!!!
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Wed, 04-02-2008 - 4:12pm

Hello: Okay so I was with Kevin for about four months during late mid 2007.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 12:00pm
Do you really want to be married to someone who is insecure and jealous and how isn't going to let you have jobs that you really like???
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2008
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 12:41pm

But he would never cheat, lie, or abuse me in any way.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 12:59pm
There are men all over who would never lie, cheat, or abuse you, and also sren't jealous.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2008
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 1:08pm
That is true.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 1:27pm
But do you want to live the rest of your life being unhappy?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2008
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 1:37pm
no, of course not.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 1:59pm

You are not a bad person. It's understandable that you feel bad about Scott. My guess is that neither guy is right for you. Have you read: Are You the One for Me? by Barbara DeAngelis? I highly recommend it.


::Its a big deal and Scott has a problem with me doing all this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 2:02pm
No one wants to hurt anyone else. But if the roles were reversed would you want him to marry you or stay with you just because he didn't want to hurt your feelings?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 2:06pm
You shouldn't have to mold yourself into something your not in order to find a husband.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 2:20pm

Hi again,


Ok, today is weird.