Soon to be married..maybe! HELP!!!

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Registered: 04-02-2008
Soon to be married..maybe! HELP!!!
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Wed, 04-02-2008 - 4:12pm

Hello: Okay so I was with Kevin for about four months during late mid 2007.

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Registered: 04-02-2008
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 3:11pm

well I have decided that we are going to sit down and have a talk about our relationship and taking a step back. I called my mom and spoke to her and about all the issues.

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Thu, 04-03-2008 - 3:24pm
I think you are doing the right thing.
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Registered: 11-10-2007
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 4:40pm
Just wanted to add a thought... maybe Scott isnt so jealous about your job...maybe he senses your emotions seesawing back and forth so ... since he doesnt know the whole story his radar is focused on your job.
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Thu, 04-03-2008 - 4:46pm

Ive thought about that too. But even before I was giving thought to going with kevin, scott was insecure and jealous.

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Registered: 04-08-2008
Wed, 04-09-2008 - 5:00pm

I know exactly how u feel except of course I'm not getting married but I did go through the same thing. My ex and I has always had this connection and I could never be w/another man w/out thinking of him. My ex broke up w/me back in December and I was sooo devastated and broken hearted. I started talking to other men and it helped alittle for me to get over him. Finally, about 2 months later I started to date this guy that is like your Scott very sweet, respectful, generous, loving, caring, very laid back, and my family loved him the short time he was around. Then my ex Aaron which is like your Kevin made me cry, my family didn't like him, and would stress me out but I sooo loved him for some reason. LOL! Well, to answer your question. U really need to think where your heart is truly. If its w/this Kevin guy and u two have this connection u cant explain then let Scott go. U have to do what makes u happy if u don't u will be wondering and miserable for the rest of your life w/this Scott. I went w/my heart I took my ex back and pray that this time everything will work out between us. I've never loved anyone like I do my Aaron and its just this connection u can't describe. I know u will hurt Scott in the process but u will feel much better alittle later knowing u made the right choice. Your family will probably be mad at u for awhile but they will get over it and accept your choice. I hope this helps u and good luck.


Amanda

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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 5:09pm

wow!! our situations are a lot alike.

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Thu, 04-10-2008 - 8:56am

I'm sooo happy for u that u went by your heart. That is exactly what Aaron and I are doing taking things slow and going with the flow. Good luck with Kevin. If u need anymore help, advice, or just email just for the heck of it that would be nice too.


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