Sorry if I ramble.... confused.

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Registered: 11-20-2004
Sorry if I ramble.... confused.
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Sat, 10-20-2007 - 9:29pm

I'm not exactly sure what is going on with my husband and I.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sat, 10-20-2007 - 11:54pm

Packing bags because his son's hair was cut too short? Hair grows back. Give me a break! Obviously there are deeper issues at work with your husband but if he thinks hair can be "out of control" it sounds more like he's describing himself!

I feel sorry for you because you sound like a good wife and mom and I think you're just really concerned for him and your marriage. Have things actually been bad for "a long time" like he says? Maybe, but sometimes people exaggerate in the heat of the moment in order to be taken more seriously.

Have you tried marriage counseling yet?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 1:50pm

Welcome to the board Sherry,


I wish I could see your photobucket siggy.... :0)


From what you wrote, my guess is that neither of you feel respected and appreciated.

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Registered: 02-10-2004
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 6:02am

Yikes, that's a pretty crazy reaction to take off over a haircut. Like eggbertshootsfire, I would say your issues are a lot bigger than the haircut - and I don't blame you a bit for feeling upset about all the 'suggestions' - it's the sort of thing that wears you down after a while.

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Registered: 11-20-2004
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 9:31pm

Thank you so much for your informative posts.

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Mon, 10-22-2007 - 11:42pm

Hey sibadii,


Photobucket is free so it might be that the wrong url posted or the cut and paste info is missing.