space?

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Registered: 10-29-2007
space?
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Mon, 10-29-2007 - 3:09am

i am very confused right now.


just over 2 months ago i met the most amazing girl ever.


things moved really fast

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Registered: 02-10-2004
In reply to: kontactedkiwi
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 6:24am

Often times with relationships that start fast and furiously, there is a tendancy that they burn out just as quickly.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: kontactedkiwi
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 1:35pm

Welcome to the baord kontactedkiwi,


I am sorry you are going through this. As hard as it is, I think you need to wait for you to contact you. It is hard telling why she had turned cold. It could be that things moved to quickly or maybe she didn't feel right about things.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: kontactedkiwi
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 3:16pm

Welcome to the board kontactedkiwi,


I'm not sure this is a real request for space or if something else is happening - polite brush off maybe? Anyway, in case it is about space, read this When he asks for space (aka, "a break")

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Registered: 10-29-2007
In reply to: kontactedkiwi
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 4:26pm

Try asking her what's happening for her. She may be feeling very hurt about something that you are not even aware of. Your showing concern could help a lot.
"I've noticed a change in how we are together...are you feeling upset by something? It's important to me what's happening for you...I wonder if you'd be willing to talk to me about it." That kind of thing.

Keep us posted, please!