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Starting over...
| Tue, 04-27-2004 - 11:48pm |
I've been seeing this guy for about two months, and everything was going great- he told me he didn't wasn't/didn't intend on seeing anyone other than me, so did that make us "official"?
We slept together about a few weeks ago, and things were fine for a week or so afterward, but then he started getting really distant and acting strange- almost mean to me. He said some hurtful things and acted in a way I had never seen before, and I can't decode what is going on with him.
We haven't spent much time together because of crazy work/school loads, but we finally got the chance to see each other a few days again, which was the first time in over a week. By the end of the night, I was exhausted, and just wanted to go to sleep. He wanted sex, which I refused, to which he threw a very childish fit about and snapped at me " I don't see you for almost two weeks and you are too tired to spend time with me". He then asks me a totatlly off-the-subject question, and when I try to answer, he snaps at me again with " Oh, I guess we will talk about this some other time, you are too tired to spend time with me". This was the first night we spent together with out sex since we've had sex.
What is going on? Is he trying to clue me in that he doesn't want me around? I questioned him about this and he said that he was just busy and stressed out, that he does in fact want me around, but when I am around him he is rude and mean. Our fun is all gone, and we don't joke around anymore. We're no longer comfortable around each other. Everytime I'm with him I feel like I have to be careful of what I say because I'm afraid he'll bite my head off.
Any answers?! I'm thinking maybe we should just start over... I don't know what to do anymore. I really like him and I wouldn't waste my time if I didn't think it was worth it...
Thanks!
We slept together about a few weeks ago, and things were fine for a week or so afterward, but then he started getting really distant and acting strange- almost mean to me. He said some hurtful things and acted in a way I had never seen before, and I can't decode what is going on with him.
We haven't spent much time together because of crazy work/school loads, but we finally got the chance to see each other a few days again, which was the first time in over a week. By the end of the night, I was exhausted, and just wanted to go to sleep. He wanted sex, which I refused, to which he threw a very childish fit about and snapped at me " I don't see you for almost two weeks and you are too tired to spend time with me". He then asks me a totatlly off-the-subject question, and when I try to answer, he snaps at me again with " Oh, I guess we will talk about this some other time, you are too tired to spend time with me". This was the first night we spent together with out sex since we've had sex.
What is going on? Is he trying to clue me in that he doesn't want me around? I questioned him about this and he said that he was just busy and stressed out, that he does in fact want me around, but when I am around him he is rude and mean. Our fun is all gone, and we don't joke around anymore. We're no longer comfortable around each other. Everytime I'm with him I feel like I have to be careful of what I say because I'm afraid he'll bite my head off.
Any answers?! I'm thinking maybe we should just start over... I don't know what to do anymore. I really like him and I wouldn't waste my time if I didn't think it was worth it...
Thanks!
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| Thu, 04-29-2004 - 7:36am |
Is this the same jerk you posted about on Guy Talk who disappeared for days? I mean seriously.... this man is very unstable. Where is your self esteem?
