Sticky Situation
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Sticky Situation
| Sat, 12-01-2007 - 3:39am |
I'll start this one by telling my story.
I just started college about 4 months ago and during the time I was in a relationship. During my first few weeks I started to become friends with two girls who live on my floor, both of which were taken. Everything was fine at the beginning until I started having issues with my girlfriend. Because

I'll start off by saying this... And I know you've already experienced it. About -0.00053% of high school couples make it through college. You just change too much, meet too many new people. If this girl, within four months of being here, can't keep her hands and lips off another guy, her relationship with her boyfriend is incredibly doomed. It may turn out that she dates you, and it may be that she is in denial and tries to save her relationship for a few months. But that doesn't justify cheating.
This guy isn't your concern. Let her deal with him. But I am really curious, why do you care how she can prove to him that you're not seeing one another anymore? You've never met him, you've hooked up with his girl, and you want her to earn his trust back? WHAT?
If you're seriously intent on this girl staying in her relationship then stay away from her altogether. But it's HER job to decide how she plays the next move with her boyfriend, not yours. You already know this, but he has every right not to trust her and he absolutely shouldn't. She's not trustworthy. Again, I completely understand what you two did and a LOT of people in college do it. I did too - it's not fun. But she's already ruined her relationship with her boyfriend and it's just not going to last. I don't think you should concern yourself with it.
Welcome to the board hyourinmaru,
Eggbertshootsfire gave you excellent advice. In addition, I would add, while you *say* you know what has to be done - rules, staying away from each other, you contradict yourself by going on two dates.